How To Recover When Your Spouse Has Cheated

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One or both spouses admit to infidelity, either a physical or an emotional affair in some 41 percent of marriages and when the affair is admitted or discovered, most marriages end. Some 31 percent of marriages do continue.* Whether or not the marriage continues, being cheated on is devastating and it takes hard work to […]

What Do Wedding Anniversaries Mean After Divorce?

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If I Were Still Married … By Janna Qualman If I were still married, today would be my 15th anniversary. I would wake hopeful, if cautious, thinking this would be the day it’ll all come together. Romance and gratitude and sentimentality would bring clarity, would fuse into a new level of appreciation for me, recognition of […]

The Hardest Thing About Getting Divorced

Ending your marriage is never easy but the hardest thing about getting divorced varies from person to person. My interviewee David has been divorced for about seven years now and for him, one of the hardest things has been the disappointment. Here’s David: I will certainly say that at the point in time when we […]

Hungry For Change – How Self-Love Can Give You A Better Post-Divorce Body

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By Joelle I watched a documentary last weekend called Hungry for Change, about the poor state of nutrition in our country. Even though it was a film about food, it was also a look at the human body/mind connection, and how easy it is to fall into a vicious cycle of self-loathing that only makes […]

Like It Or Not, Divorce Will Change You

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As with life’s other major events, you won’t come through divorce the same person you were before the end of your marriage. Like it or not divorce will change you. Wrapping up this series with Lisa Thomson, Lisa reflects on the impacts divorce has had on her. For her, the changes are for the better. […]

Are You Thinking Of Writing A Book About Your Divorce?

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Changes in the publishing world such as blogging, self-publishing, and ebooks all make writing a book about your divorce much more possible and feasible than it was even five years ago. That doesn’t mean everyone who experiences divorce ends up writing publicly about it but Lisa Thomson did. Here’s Lisa I started writing my book because […]

You Will Need New Friends After Divorce

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Getting divorced is like throwing a rock into pond … there are always ripple effects. Divorce doesn’t just impact you and your spouse. It will impact you and your friends and you will need new friends after divorce. Lisa Thomson was married for 18 years. She’d been at stay-at-home mom and divorce meant going back […]

How Do You Keep Your Family Out Of Your Divorce?

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Ending your marriage should be between you and your spouse but that’s frequently not the case. Other family members often get involved. If you or your STBX is from a tightly-knit family you might be researching how to keep your family out of your divorce. Lisa Thomson had been married for 18 years when she […]

What You Can Learn From Your Divorce

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Nobody chooses divorce because it will be “a good experience” but without a doubt you can learn from your divorce. And that applies to everyone. In this last segment with my current guest, Bill he reflects on what he feels is his most significant accomplishment since getting divorced. Here’s Bill: I think it’s probably different […]

How Do I Heal From Divorce?

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Many people going through divorce ask, “How do I feel from divorce?” They started to realize they’ve lost touch with who they truly are and feel lost. My current guest, Bill was married for twenty-three years and has three daughters. When his marriage was falling apart he started to realize that he and his wife […]