Help! My Ex Has A Very Different Parenting Style Than Me

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You and your spouse may have had disagreements over parenting while you were married but now you’re divorced, they may have you screaming, “Help! My ex has a very different parenting style than me.” David was married for about twelve years and has been divorced now for over seven years. His children were aged 12, […]

Creating A Parenting Plan That Works Is Difficult

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Anyone who’s been required to have a written parenting plan as part of their divorce knows that creating a parenting plan that works is difficult. My current guest David, has been divorced for over seven years now. He has three children. The parenting schedule he has now is not the schedule he had when he was […]

How To Make Living In Two Homes Work For Your Children

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While some parents do adopt a nesting arrangement so their children stay in a single home, the children of most divorced parents end up rotating between their parents. So the big question becomes how to make living in two homes work for your children. My current guest, David has been separated now for over seven […]

How Do I Stay An Involved Father After Divorce?

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Divorce for most parents means seeing less of your child and that physical time apart may have you questioning how you can stay an involved father after divorce. Today, I’d like to introduce you to a new guest, David. He was married for twelve and half years and has been divorced now for about seven […]

How Do Children React to Divorce?

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Are You Wondering How Does Shared Parenting Work?

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One of the top concerns for parents getting divorced is how does shared parenting work. The good news is that there is no rigid plan or formula that you have to follow for shared parenting. That does mean it’s up to you and your STBX to figure out what works for your family which always […]

How Do I Minimize My Child’s Anxiety During Divorce

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By Nancy Samalin You may be wondering, “How do I minimize my child’s anxiety during divorce?” Watch your words! As a parenting educator having worked with so many well-meaning, loving parents for so many years, I believe it’s a divorced parent’s single biggest responsibility. No matter how much anger and disdain you may feel toward each […]

How Do I Parent With My Ex After Divorce?

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Your marriage is over but you and your ex have children together so your relationship continues and it will continue for a very long time. You may ask, “How do I parent with my ex?” My current guest Bill has three daughters who were all teenagers when his marriage ended two years ago. Since then […]

Parenting After Divorce Is Not About 50/50 Shared Parenting Time

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These days, it seems that negotiations on parenting after divorce start with 50/50 shared parenting time. While both parents do need to be actively involved, 50/50 shared parenting time is more about meeting the parents’ needs than the child’s. My present guest, Bill has been divorced for a little more than a year and was […]

Telling Your Adult Children You’re Getting Divorced

Telling your adult children about your divorce is still challenging

Telling your children you’re getting divorced is never easy no matter their age. It’s not a matter of being easier or more difficult than telling young children, it’s simply that the issues, the concerns and the reactions are different. My current guest, Candi has three adult children who were in their late twenties/early thirties at the […]