Wildflower Women’s Foundation

In my last post, I introduced you to Leslie Matthews who explained why she believes it’s imperative to use a divorce attorney in certain situations, and especially Katrina’s child custody battle.The dilemma of course, is coming up with the money for a retainer which may be as much as $5,000. Today, I’d like to introduce [...]

Friends and family are the most help through divorce

SilentPartner

Divorce can be a very isolating time. For me, it wasn’t so much the months after we had separated but more the months leading up to my decision and the months my ex and I spent talking about it. I was withdrawing socially because I wanted to avoid questions I didn’t want to answer. Once [...]

Divorce resources

When I talk to women about their accomplishments since getting divorced, they often mention resources that were particularly helpful. Here are some of them. Career/Work Development Marcus Buckingham – First, Break All The Rules: What The Worlds Greatest Managers Do Differently. His message is very much that if you play to your strengths, you will [...]

Magnetic Partners: Why what attracts us also tears us apart

magneticpartners

Having just finished Susan’s series, it’s a good time to post a book review for Magnetic Partners: Discover How the Hidden Conflict That Once Attracted You to Each Other is Now Driving You Apart, by Stephen J. Betchen (Free Press, May 2010). The fun part about this too is I have copies of the book [...]

A Spiritual Divorce

Leisa Hammett

Today, I’m bringing you a guest book review from an inspiring lady I met at the Blissdom blogging conference. Her name is Leisa Hammett and she writes a blog, Leisa A. Hammet: The Journey With Grace: Autism, Art and All the Rest of Life. Grace is her daughter who has autism which you’ll quickly understand [...]

What is a divorce coach?

This is the last in my series on the Divorce Encouragist and what strikes me about her story, is that divorce for her really has been a new beginning. It’s changing the course of her life. Not only did she start relishing life after divorce , she saw the injustice of divorce and has started [...]

The Wisdom of a Broken Heart

The Wisdom of a Broken Heart (Susan Piver, Free Press, 2010) offers a productive and empowering strategy for handling the end of a love affair. Her basic premise is you have open your heart and mind to the pain you’re feeling before you can heal your heart and be ready for another romantic experience. That [...]

Ask Me About My Divorce

Ask Me About My Divorce is a collection of twenty-nine stories, edited by Candace Walsh, from women about their divorce. Each writer takes you through the lead up to her divorce, her spouse’s role/reaction and the creation of her new life after divorce. The stories include tales of extra-martial affairs, addiction and co-dependency, polygamy, mental [...]

My Divorce Shower

MyDivorceShower

In a World of Discoveries, Heather-Marie described herself as a creator. Her latest creation, a website called My Divorce Shower, is a work in progress and currently under construction. The website promises to be a clearing house of resources for women experiencing divorce and their friends.  To do it full justice, I thought I would [...]

Navigating the divorce minefield

Looking back over the legal process of my divorce, I have to say that I could have made better use of the resources available online. Several years before I began to seriously consider divorce, I had read a couple of books on the subject and after I had told my husband I was thinking about [...]