It’s Over – The Moment of Realization

Many women have shared how there was a single moment or incident when they knew their marriage was over, when they knew they had to leave. Here’s IronSpineSally’s moment: For me, it was a conversation that we had on the couch, where he told me he resented me for pretty much everything. I remember that…

The courage to leave

When Andrea hired a private investigator to follow her husband she didn’t think she’d find out anything new: the women’s underwear was evidence enough that he was cheating. So when the PI told her she was married to a crossdresser, she didn’t believe him yet it soon became clear to her that it was time…

Finding signs of cheating

When Andrea’s friend said she thought Andrea’s spouse was cheating, she couldn’t believe it. She knew the marriage was in deep trouble: he was restricting her access to money, they were fighting, there was no intimacy and his behavior was just plain odd. Truly, he was so difficult to live with, Andrea just couldn’t imagine…

The Reason for the Sexless Marriage

After their disastrous, supposedly romantic getaway to New York, for Lisa the marriage was over but may be not for her husband. He made a last attempt to keep her in the marriage by finally telling her why it was a sexless marriage. Here’s Lisa: We got back from New York and I called my…

When is enough enough?

When I’m interviewing a guest, I usually start by asking them to give the background to their marriage and divorce, just basic details like how long they’ve been divorced, how old they were when they got divorced, how many children they have and so on. The question that most people struggle with is the length…