Dating As A Parent After Divorce

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People say that dating after divorce is like riding a bicycle ... you don't forget how to do it. The trouble is that some of us were not very skilled at it first time around and then, dating as a parent after divorce is definitely different. More complicated. Antonio Borello has been divorced now for over three years. During that time he's dated a lot, he's been in a few serious relationships … [Continue reading...]

How Do Children React To Divorce?

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Telling your children about your divorce is one of those conversations you dread having and you'll never forget it. How children react to divorce starts with that conversation. Antonio Borello's two children were both under aged six when Antonio and his wife were separating. Their reactions were quite different. Here's Antonio: My son was probably around three and a half, four, so he … [Continue reading...]

Adapting To Shared Parenting Time After Divorce

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A common reason parents give for putting off divorce is not wanting to be separated from their children. That's understandable. Adapting to shared parenting after divorce takes time, energy and commitment. Antonio Borello has been divorced now for about three years and his two children are now aged ten and eight. He admits that being apart from his children has been difficult but he and his ex … [Continue reading...]

Your Ex Can Still Be Part Of Your Family

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People are often surprised when divorced couples stay connected and stay friends but if it's something you both want, your ex can still be part of your family post-divorce. Antonio Borello and his wife were married for about ten years and together for three years before they got married. They were friends and partners for a long time. While the level of conflict in their relationship was such … [Continue reading...]

Going To Your Children’s Events With Your Ex

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There are so many challenges with parenting after divorce. One of the most immediate ones is going to your children's events with your ex. Are you civil enough to be able to be in each other's company? Can you sit together? How will other people react? How will your children react? Antonio Borello is a psychologist and family therapist. He's been divorced now for three years and during that … [Continue reading...]

How To Reduce Post-Divorce Conflict

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The amount of post-divorce conflict is a major determinant in how well children cope with their parents' divorce. Fact. Knowing how to reduce post-divorce conflict should therefore be a priority for any parent whose marriage is ending. Psychologist and family therapist, Antonio Borello has been divorced for three years. His two children are now aged ten and eight. Antonio says that the … [Continue reading...]

Even Marriage Counselors Go To Marriage Counseling

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Getting couples or marriage therapy is a standard recommendation for anyone experiencing marital difficulties. It might seem surprising but even therapists go to marriage counseling and even marriage counselors get divorced. My guest, Antonio Borello is a psychologist and relationship therapist. He was married for about ten years and divorced almost four years ago and he and his wife did go … [Continue reading...]