Wisdom From Divorce: I’m Afraid Of Being Alone

Have you ever asked someone whose marriage is clearly troubled why they stay? Ever heard, "I'm afraid of being alone?" or "I'd rather stay married than be alone?" Coming out of marriage at thirty-six I felt fear and loneliness, the fear that I would never find a match that I would really love, ultimately on a primeal level, that I would die alone. ~ Sally Sally and her husband were married for … [Continue reading...]

Denial About Divorce

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How Do I Parent With My Ex After Divorce?

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Your marriage is over but you and your ex have children together so your relationship continues and it will continue for a very long time. You may ask, "How do I parent with my ex?" My current guest Bill has three daughters who were all teenagers when his marriage ended two years ago. Since then he's been navigating the co-parenting waters. Here's Bill: The first Christmas we were … [Continue reading...]

Parenting After Divorce Is Not About 50/50 Shared Parenting Time

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These days, it seems that negotiations on parenting after divorce start with 50/50 shared parenting time. While both parents do need to be actively involved, 50/50 shared parenting time is more about meeting the parents' needs than the child's. My present guest, Bill has been divorced for a little more than a year and was separated for a year before that. At the time of his separation his three … [Continue reading...]

How Do I Heal From Divorce?

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Many people going through divorce ask, "How do I feel from divorce?" They started to realize they've lost touch with who they truly are and feel lost. My current guest, Bill was married for twenty-three years and has three daughters. When his marriage was falling apart he started to realize that he and his wife were really at cross-purposes. Their personalities were fundamentally different and … [Continue reading...]

Wisdom From Divorce: Divorce Makes You Face The Truth

Divorce is scary. It's scary because it's unfamiliar to most of us. It's also scary because it has a way of stripping away all our protective layers. Divorce makes you face the truth about yourself: I feel that's a great thing divorce does - it makes you really face truth, whatever that truth is for you. I had to face my own demons. I had a ton of fear, a ton of insecurity, very low self-esteem, … [Continue reading...]

Sharing Loved Ones With Your Ex

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