Wisdom From Divorce: Divorce May Be Part Of Your Spiritual Journey

Religious beliefs are often a barrier to even considering divorce as an option when divorce may actually be part of your spiritual journey: The fact that I chose divorce doesn't mean I didn't pray about it. It doesn't mean I made the decisions without talking to God. The fact that it messes up the order in the church doesn't mean this isn't part of your spiritual journey. ~RMJ RMJ is the only … [Continue reading...]

Watch & Learn: What Are Your Kids Seeing?

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How Do You Make Parenting Decisions With Your Ex After Divorce

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Making parenting decisions when you're married seems more organic, more transparent, there's more give and take, more compromise because you're functioning within the container of your marriage and you want that to work. The end of your marriage, means the end to that framework and you have to figure out how to make parenting decisions with your ex. Decision-making becomes more … [Continue reading...]

How Do I Cope With My Ex’s No Rules Parenting?

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Expecting your ex to follow the exact same parenting rules as you is unrealistic but when you're the disciplinarian and they're the fun parent, you could be left wondering, "How do I cope with my ex's no rules parenting?" David has been divorced now for over seven years and his three children are now aged seventeen, fourteen and ten. Over the years he's become quite adept at handling the … [Continue reading...]

Help! My Ex Has A Very Different Parenting Style Than Me

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You and your spouse may have had disagreements over parenting while you were married but now you're divorced, they may have you screaming, "Help! My ex has a very different parenting style than me." David was married for about twelve years and has been divorced now for over seven years. His children were aged 12, 7 and 3 at the time his marriage ended so those seven years have meant transitions … [Continue reading...]

Wisdom From Divorce: Does Life Get Easier When Your Ex Is Dating?

Learning that your ex is dating can bring a flood of emotions and for some, life gets easier: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. A lot of people want that to be a big drama but I noticed a change in his behavior towards me instantly. I didn't want him back so all I could do was just say, "I'm really happy for you." And I was happy … [Continue reading...]

Co-Parenting Is Like Business

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