When IronSpineSally talked about leaving her marriage with a note, she never used the words “having an affair’ but she did say she had met another man, who I’m going to call John, and they had become good friends. I asked her if she would have ended her marriage if she hadn’t met this other…
Tag Archive: infidelity
Leaving With a Note
When her husband was deployed with the Air Force, IronSpineSally was forced to take more responsibility for the household and in the process learned she was far more capable than she’d thought. Then came the falafel fire and the moment she knew she had to end her marriage. That can mean different things: for some…
Finding signs of cheating
When Andrea’s friend said she thought Andrea’s spouse was cheating, she couldn’t believe it. She knew the marriage was in deep trouble: he was restricting her access to money, they were fighting, there was no intimacy and his behavior was just plain odd. Truly, he was so difficult to live with, Andrea just couldn’t imagine…
When Friends Suspect an Affair
Andrea had been married for about ten years when she really got a sense that her relationship with her husband was shifting. It was hard to point to anything concrete but there were signs that with hindsight she should have been looking for divorce advice. Here’s Andrea: I knew he was probably keeping money from…
Telltale signs of a broken marriage
Today, I’d like to introduce you to my next guest, Grace Adams (@GraceAdamsLive) who writes the wonderful blog Looks Great Naked. At the time her divorce was final, Grace had been married for over nineteen years although she says six or seven of those years don’t really count as being married. She has three children…
