On-going conflict between former spouses can result in very challenging situations, some in which there are no good answers. Relief may come in accepting that whatever it is, it is temporary:
My ex used religion to alienate my children against me. Even though they don’t want to be with me, the relationship I have is only love because I have learned to accept and surrender to the present situation. It doesn’t mean I’m loving it but I accept it knowing that the only constant in life is change.
Esther Adler escaped an abusive father through marriage which also turned out to be abusive. The abuse continued after the divorce with her ex successfully alienating her children from her.